Sinatra - A Fans Reflections

Sinatra. The name? What does it conjure? Well,There have been so many great performers
for myself and millions of Italian-Americans overover the years, but there never was, there is not
the years, the name Sinatra conjures mostlynow, and there will never ever be another quite
love, warmth, happiness, pride. The emotions onelike that man, Francis Albert Sinatra. Never, ever!!!
ever really needs. To be happy, content, and feelI've been a tremendous fan of his since early
Love. These are the things that are important.childhood. I grew up listening to the Beatles, Elvis,
These, good health, family togetherness.The Rolling Stones, all the great Motown and
My love of Frank Sinatra, the man and his musicPhiladelphia Sound artists, as well as many other
began when I was a young boy growing up inRock and Pop Stars. Along with the Pop,
East Rutherford,R&B, and Rock music that most kids of my
New Jersey. As far back as I can remember, myage would listen to, I added artists of my parents
mother used to play all his wonderful recordings.generation; like Sinatra, the rest of the Rat Pack,
She'd play the records on her RCA Victor RecordLouis Armstrong, Bobby Darin, and others that
Player. Songs like Strangers in the Night, Themost children and young adults my age hardly
Summer Wind, Lady is a Tramp, Fly Me to theever listened to unless they were the chosen few
Moon, Come Fly with Me, and so many more. Shewho had the good taste and capacity to
played Frank all the time, along with Sammy, Dino,appreciate musicians like Armstrong, Sinatra, Ella
Elvis, Al Martino, Nat King Cole, and Tony Bennett.Fitzgerald and others. It didn't matter if you were
Those were her favorites and Frank Sinatra wasof the generation or not.
always number one to my Mom and the entireWhen I was in high school, I had a few friends
Bellino family.who were heavily into Sinatra as-well. Other kids
The man sang with so much emotion that youthought he was boring and old-fashioned. We
could actually feel it within yourself, the feelingsknew better! We were all of Italian descent and
and emotions he was trying to convey. He tried,we were proud of him and of ourselves that
he always succeeded. Whether he was singing aalthough we were from another era, we were
fun happy song like "Luck Be a Lady," or "I've Gotsophisticated enough, at such young ages to
the World on a String." But most of all theappreciate great performers of our parents and
incredible way he sang a torch song. Phenomenal.grandparents generation. We were cool and we
Songs of lost love and bittersweet romances likeknew it! We looked at ourselves as The Jr. Rat
"You and Me," as you listen, you feel it, the pain,Pack, Cool and Sophisticated!!!
the sorrow of a bittersweet Love lost.The sad day in which Frank Sinatra passed away,
They say the reason he had this very specialI received four messages of condolence, one
touch with torch songs was that as he songfrom my sister Barbara, one from my
these songs, he'd always think of the greatestbrother-in-law Noel, one from my friend Selena,
love of all and the Lost Love,and one from my good buddy James Starace.
Ava Gardner, "The proverbial girl that got away."That's how much I loved the man, and all my
The man had such a way with lyrics and music,friends and family knew it, thus the messages of
he'd take those songs and make them his own.condolence. I wouldn't be surprised if that
These songs were, still are, and always will behappened to a million other Sinatra fans.
wonderful such "Wonderful Gifts" to the World, toWe were blessed with his presence for a long
his hundreds of millions of fans. They are a parttime. We still are, through all his fabulous
of history, left to mankind, to eternity. Howrecordings and the memories they evoke of old
wonderful. Lucky we all are.girlfriends, of our mothers, fathers, and of Frank.
Italian-Americans are deeply proud that he wasI made sure that I went to see the man perform
one of their own. He was an Icon, The Twentiethlive on seven extraordinary occasions. These
Century's greatest entertainer, a Nationalconcerts hold many wonderful memories that I
Treasure and source of pride. Someone whomwill have for the rest of my life, along with the
Italians-Americans looked-up-to and were proudnumerous dinners with friends and family spent
of, to brag about. He was of Italian blood, thatlistening to his incomparable recordings and having
our roots were from the same place, as well asSinatra Parties on Saturday nights when WNEW
so many of our forbearer's of Italy to precedeAM in New York used to have a show every
us, people like;Saturday night for years called "Saturday with
Leonardo Da Vinci, Bruneleschi, Verrazzano,Sinatra", as only New Yorkers could do, New
Columbus, Marconi, and Michael Angelo. There wasYorkers being Franks most loyal fans. The show
Joe Di Maggio, Dean Martin, Tony Bennett, Alwas hosted by Sid Marxs. Sid and some of his
Pacino, Francis Ford Copola, Robert Mondavi, Jakespecial guest would tell all sorts of wonderful
La Motta, Rocky Marciano, and so many more,stories about Frank. There would be guests who
and of all those incredible people, Sinatra was tops.knew Frank personally, as well as listeners who
He still is.would call in and tell stories of how they fell in
There was nobody quite like Frank, who gavelove listening to Sinatra or how they met him one
you such wonderful feelings and emotionstime, or of performances that they went to. The
whenever you listened to him, or watched him inshow was three hours of listening to Sinatra's
movies like "Kings Go Forth" or his Oscar winningincomparable music and of stories and antidotes
performance as Maggio in "From Here to Eternity".of "The Man."
If you were ever fortunate enough to see himSinatra was loved all over the world, and people
perform live, it was an experience like no other.could tell you all sorts of interesting antidotes
You know how he makes you feel so good whenpertaining to all parts of the globe. I have a
you listen to one of his beautiful recordings? Wellparticular interesting memory of him combined
multiply that by 100 and you just start towith a great food and wine trip in Italy. I was in
understand. The feelings one felt at a Sinatrathe small wine town of Greve in Chianti Classico,
Concert were oh so magical. euphoric feelingsItaly having a nice little dinner with my pal Jimmy
you'd get the same euphoric feeling that you gotStarace. We were in this great little Enoteca
as a child on Christmas Night opening youreating the famed local salumi and Paparadelle with
presents. Do you remember? Only seeing SinatraWild Boar Ragu. We were a bit surprised (I don't
"Live" was so much better.know why) to hear Sinatra and Billy Holiday
When you went to a Sinatra Concert there wouldrecordings playing at this little place. The owner
be so much love, joy, happiness, and adulation forwalked by to see how we were doing. I gave him
the man that you could literally feel it in the air. Ita thumbs-up and told him, "Great music".
made you shiver and sent chills up and down your"You like Billy Holiday?" he inquired. We had a nice
spine. "Truly." People would be screaming out, "Welittle conversation with him about Billy, Sinatra, and
love you Frank", men and women, and he'd replywine. He told us that he had lived and worked in
back, "I love you too", in a way, only Frank couldfor a few years and worked in New York for a
do. He truly did love and appreciate his fans andfew years. This guy was a big fan of Frank, Billy,
had such a wonderful rapport with his audience.and New York City. So, that's Frank for you,
Frank would always say such warm andloved the World over, even in little towns like
wonderful things as he performed. It wasGreve in Chianti.
amazing. As they say, "You could feel the Love".